Faking it: would you buy a counterfeit purse?

Real or fake? The Hermes "Evelyn" bag 

I was 14 years old when I bought my first and possibly last fake handbag. It was a miniature Louis Vuitton and it looked pretty darn good. Back then, however, when girls in my high school carried designer bags, it was generally assumed they weren't the real deal. Hence, I wasn't trying to pass it off as an actual LV, I was simply partaking in the trend du jour.

Today, I'm the proud owner of several authentic designer bags; each of which was chosen after much (too much?) careful deliberation. I love them all. Still, I couldn't help but feel annoyed when my not even two-year-old Prada tote had to be sent for repairs totalling close to $100. Part of the reason you (or at least I) pay top dollar for a brand name is to ensure you're getting a certain level of quality.

Nevertheless, that didn't stop me from trolling the aisles at Bergdorf Goodman and Barneys last week for a new cross-body bag following a generous gift from my grandmother. I quickly became enamoured with a black and gold studded version from Balenciaga. But because I didn't really need it, the thought of spending $1500 on a little, albeit stunning accessory made me uneasy. In case you haven't noticed, prices on designer goods have become quite simply: outrageous. It's madness I tell you, madness!

And because things like this always happen, the very same day I was mulling over getting the Balenciaga, I received a phone call that would completley change the way I look at high-end pocket books. Someone with impecable sartorial taste informed me of a guy in Manhattan who sells the kind of fakes that even ladies who would never dream of rocking counterfeit goods are snapping them up. The request was to buy her an Hermès Évelyne, a leather bag with a long canvas strap and perforated "H" logo. It retails for close to $3000, but this purveyor of fakes was offering it for $385. 

With my visiting parents in tow, we went to see these "good" fakes for ourselves. Neither one of us, with our discerning eyes were able to tell the difference. It was wild. This guy also sold Goyard totes for $150 that were right on the money, not to mention countless other major labels. I knew such top notch counterfeit merchandise existed, but it was different having it in front of me.

Since then, I've been wondering whether every Hermès or Goyard purse I spot on the street is actually a fake. Suddenly, it felt like I was let in on a well kept secret. Designer style without breaking the bank? Ooh the temptation. So now I was faced with a dilemma: to buy or not to buy the fake handbag?

Having worked in fashion for the last seven years and studying at Parsons has made me accutely aware of the amount of work that goes into designing and manufacturing clothing and accessories. I have tremendous respect for the industry, and I've learned plenty about the negative impact the counterfeit business has on it.

The fraud factor was also weighing heavily on my decision, i.e, would I feel like a fraud carrying around a fake? I can't explain it, but every time I wear my Prada tote I get a little rush of excitement thinking about the day I spoiled myself and bought it. I also enjoy marvelling at the level of craftsmanship (repairs notwithstanding).

I'll admit it: I'm affected by designer labels and their marketing. And yes, they do have a power over me which makes me justify paying crazy amounts of money on their goods. At the same time, as  I mentioned previously, the prices right now are insane and justifying them is becoming a challenge.

That said, $385 is a significant amount of money, even if it's to buy a purse that looks identical to a $3000 one. Perhaps I'm better off using that money to buy a gorgeous pair of shoes in lieu of supporting the counterfeit trade? Or, you know, I could save it. Bottom line: I'm still thinking about whether or not to get the bag and I'd love to hear your opinions. Would you buy a really well done counterfeit purse? Has the so-called stigma associated with wearing counterfeit bags diminished?

xoxo

Val

Summer style: 5 things I can't wait to wear this season

With all due respect, it's been summer weather in Miami pretty much since I moved here in November. That being said, most of my readers dwell in chillier parts, hence my decision to write about my summer wardrobe now. Besides, most of these items are pretty new anyways since now is the time retailers carry the season's clothes. So here's a little shopping inspiration for y'all.

Happy almost summer!

xoxo

Val

1. Tibi cut out dress

The neckline features a hidden zipper  

I love the white contrast in the back and how the zipper emphasizes the spine's natural curve

Tibi designer Amy Smilovic creates clothing that's feminine with just the right amount of edginess. The brand's cocktail and day dresses are my favorite in the contemporary market, and the one above is the epitome of summer chic. The playful stripes and cotton fabric mean I can easily wear it during the day with flat sandals or ballerinas, while its cut out details along the midriff and snug fit mean all I need is a pair of heels to make it work for date night. Packing light for summer getaways suddenly doesn't seem as cumbersome.

Helpful hint: Often I find by the time 50% off sales start, sizes on popular items are scarce. However, if you find something you absolutely adore, many online and in-store retailers, including Tibi.com, have friends and family events where the entire collection is 25% off. So be sure to sign up for emails from retailers you like.

2. J. Crew high waisted floral print shorts

Going for the green on green look with a silk Equipment tank

High waisted shorts and their sartorial companion crop tops, are ubiquitous this spring/summer 2014. These shorts from J.Crew have a bold floral print that keeps them from starting too far into preppy territory, and there's a zipper down the back to further accentuate the derriere. When I'm not inclined to highlight my tush, I'll team them with a loosely tucked in tank or tee. But on days when I'm feeling more adventurous, I'll work summer's premier trend and throw on a loose crop top.

3. Splendid striped bikini 

Splendid bikini

Despite living in Miami, you'd be shocked by how little time I spend at the beach. So to answer your question, no, I'm not fully at easy in a two-piece, and yes, it's still hard to pick out a flattering and comfortable style. Until recently I had no idea Splendid made bathing suits, so I was pleasantly surprised to discover they offer several fun options in the $100 range. I chose this one because I love the contrasting, slightly sporty orange straps, and because the ruffle creates the illusion of a fuller bust. Bingo. Instead of buying the bottoms modelled above, I chose a solid orange pair with fuller coverage. As sexy as string bikinis are, I find they untie too often and tend to bunch up in the front and back.

4. Any pair of Chloé shoes

Tell me these Chloe wedges aren't perfection, I dare you.

I'll admit it: I'm completely and utterly obsessed with Chloé shoes. I'm literally like a kid in a candy shop when I'm in their proximity, and choosing which single pair to buy come sale time is arguably one of the toughest decisions I make all year. They're a fortune, but they're ridiculously comfortable, AND gorgeous. Plus, they last for several seasons. So come Memorial Day designer sales, I hope to get my hands on my Cinderella Chloé shoes. No, I sadly don't own the pair above.

5. Breton Stripe Saint James Shirt

The Guildo R A style from Saint James

Breton stripe shirts are quintessentially French, and Saint James has been making the iconic style for over 150 years. Since the 19th century the brand has been manufacturing its goods in Saint James, a small town in Normandy. The combed cotton tops were originally designed to protect Breton fisherman from the elements, and though I'm not spending my days at sea, I love the shirt's durability and rich history. The somewhat boxy fit of the above silhouette (Guildo R A) works great with skinny jeans or denim short shorts for an easy summer look. So simple, so French, so chic.

Guy pretty versus girl pretty: can your clothes be both?

Perennially stylish Diane Kruger wears a Calvin Klein look that's both guy and girl pretty. 

Having time to spare before a first date a while ago, I decided to poll three male friends about what I should wear. Being guys 'n' all, I kept the options straightforward: skirt, shorts or a dress. The skirt got one vote, but shorts (read: short shorts) won. So what did I do? Luckily, I had just become the proud owner of a Tibi skort, proving with a little creativity, everyone can be a winner. It was short (enough), comfortable (comfort is key), and I teamed it with a plain black pocket tee and super-high wedges. The verdict: compliments, followed by subsequent dates. 

But here's the caveat: when I posed the same question to a female friend, her knee-jerk reaction was  "dress." Muy interesante. It's no secret there are outfits that are strictly girl pretty, meaning while women will appreciate it, the look will be completely lost on guys. Usually such ensembles fall under the category of super trendy, highly embellished and/or too long and/or loose. For more information, please see: Man Repeller.

My friends and I often discuss the subject of whom do women dress for: themselves? other women? or men? First and foremost, I dress for myself, because if I don't like my appearance, I couldn't care less whether others do; and then, depending on where I'm going and whom I'm going to be with, I make a conscious choice to dress either for men or women. Yet lately, as I strive to streamline my wardrobe and make lasting fashion purchases, I've been thinking: can you dress for both equally without sacrificing your personal style? According to yours truly, the answer is a resounding yes. However, for those of us who get giddy over maxi skirts and frilly blouses, it does require some effort.

Allow me to let you in on a secret: men like women's bodies, so if you want a male-approved look, show (some) of it off.  Here's another secret: women also like when women flaunt what they've got, provided it's tasteful and feels authentic. For instance, while some dames can pull off a body-hugging short dress and look decidedly elegant (i.e., Gwyneth Paltrow)  -- my discomfort would instantly give me away. That said, I have no reservations exposing my legs, I would just choose a dress/shorts/skirt that suits my style, and I'd keep my top simple, but not plain because I'm a sucker for interesting draping and details, and I'd make sure it was neither too tight nor too loose. Think a fitted black leather mini, with a half-tucked black and white striped T, high heels and a jean jacket you can easily toss on and off.

Now you're probably thinking, okay Val, so let's say my clothes can do double duty and charm both sexes, what happens if on a given day I'm leaning more towards one than the other? I'm so glad you asked because this is a quandary that's easily solved by none other than a gal's best friend: accessories. Therefore, while both guys and gals will appreciate the aforementioned outfit with heels, I know ladies will get a kick out of seeing it paired with chic sneakers, oxfords, or riding boots, whereas the fellas would prefer a single sole pump. And while costume jewelry tends to be wasted on men, even the simplest sartorial choice will earn a gal pal's seal of approval if it's topped off with some stellar bling. Now go and get yourself some well-deserved compliments.

XOXO

Val

The big bang theory: or why I'm jealous of Lauren Conrad

Lauren Conrad's chic new look is giving me serious bang envy

I've never looked to Lauren Conrad for fashion inspiration, but her recent Marie Claire cover stirred a longing within me: to bring back my bangs. Seeing LC in her full fringed glory made me miss the days I too had bangs. I've gone without for about six months now, but like an ex you can't seem to fully let go of -- such is how I feel about bangs.

I had bangs throughout most of my childhood, but following a traumatic experience before the fifth grade when I decided to play the role of hairdresser, they didn't return till I was 16. Who was my inspiration then? Why Mischa Barton of course, she of "The O.C." fame. Since part of the reason my boyfriend at the time was attracted to me was his major crush on Ms. Barton, the bangs stayed and I never looked back.  They danced around from full frontal fringe to side bangs and back again, but a constant they remained. And then it happened; between a summer of hellish NYC heat and their owner's laziness (bangs are a B%&$# to maintain), they grew out, and -- poof -- just like that they were gone.

We women have such an attachment to our hair; one might go so far as to say it acts as a protective helmut from the dangerous world surrounding us. But as I "grow up", I find myself wanting them less to hide under (oh those wonderful teenage years), but rather to add structure to my face and give me a more distinct look. Also, about twice a year I simply get bored with my hair and start itching for a change; my last big move was lightening the ends, and like a good addict I keep wanting to go back for more -- i.e. go lighter and lighter.

Part of what's stopping me from making the cut now is the high maintenance aspect, as well as (hold the judgements), the fact lately I've been getting the sense bangs fall under the category of "girl pretty" and not "guy pretty". You know, kind of like boyfriend jeans or Peter Pan collars. Deep down I believe none of that should matter if you've got confidence and a killer smile (and it's not like I remained chaste while having bangs), yet it remains a deciding factor.

At the end of the day, I'm simply unsure what look suits me better, so I'm asking YOU for input. In fact, you've already helped, because in writing this I've realized perhaps my main problem is taking life too seriously (umm, I compared bangs to an ex-boyfriend). Thankfully, hair grows, and having an on-again, off-again relationship with a hairstyle is significantly less perilous than a romantic relationship of a similar nature.

Full bangs

Side bangs

Bye bye bangs (I realize this isn't the greatest shot) 

Summer style: 5 items I can't wait to wear this season

1. Chloé Wooden Wedge Sandals 

Chloé wooden wedge sandals

Is it a wedge or a heel? Why, it's a little bit of both thank you for asking, making these sandals as original as they are comfortable. While a high stiletto is the pinnacle of elegance -- the jagged streets of Manhattan make getting anywhere in them a safety hazard, not to mention they'll get destroyed faster than you can say Manolo. So if you're like me, and want to at least have the option of walking short distances without having to do the obligatory flip-flop switcheroo, you'll need to arm yourself with a chunky heel or wedge. I've had my eye on these Chloé's for a while and pounced on them the instant word of Barneys' semi-annual sale hit my inbox. At 40% off, they're not a deal by any means, but a beautifully crafted shoe, particularly in a classic style, will get you places.


2. Club Monaco black Tika Dress with side cutouts

Club Monaco LBD with side cutouts 

I think it was Michael Kors who said when you find a perfect dress -- buy it even if you don't necessarily have an occasion to wear it to. It's simply one of those things you never seem to find when you need it most. C'mon ladies, admit it, we've all been there: it's the day before a major event and you're contemplating feigning an illness because you've scoured every department store and found nothing to wear. Such logic came in handy when I acquired this LBD from Club Monaco. It fits me like a glove, and the side cutouts let me justify the purchase of yet another black dress. Is there such a thing as too many? Discuss.

Love the zipper detail in the back

3. MiH Jeans "The Phoebe"

"The Phoebe" jeans from MiH are mid-rise and have a slouchy fit.

Perhaps this explains why I'm still single, but I find the right pair of slouchy jeans on a woman can be inexplicably sexy. It must be the laid back, effortless vibe that comes through when one looks comfortable and slightly undone. Whatever it is, I'm planning on living in my MiH's this summer. The iconic British denim brand has succeeded in making a style that's tight around the tush, but loose throughout the leg, and with a comfortable mid-rise. Cuffed once or twice, worn with heels or flats, these versatile light wash jeans will yield a good return on your investment. 

Here they're shown cuffed once, but you can just as easily cuff them twice,  or not at all. 

4. Mara Hoffman Nomad Bikini 

The modern print and cut of the top keep this Mara Hoffman bikini away from old lady shores.

Last year, my hunt for a retro bikini à la glamorous Hollywood screen siren from way back when, didn't get me past dowdy-ville. This year, however, a Mara Hoffman number proved to be the game changer. No, I don't resemble a screen siren (a gal can dream), but I do look quite cool (if I may say so myself) in this modern re-iteration. Clearly I'm not the only one feeling nostalgic this season because finding this bikini (top and bottom sold separately) in my size was no simple feat; I got the top from Shopbop.com and the bottoms at Anthropologie.com. Nobody said it would be easy.

A little detail goes a long way.

 

5. J. Crew Vintage Cotton Tank 

J. Crew's airy Vintage Cotton Tanks are practically sheer, and the slight V neckline is flattering on most

I sweat. A lot. This isn't one of my finest qualities, but it's not exactly one I can change much either. That said, tank tops are my best friends when temperatures soar, and J.Crew's vintage cotton ones top my list. At $24.50 (I got mine when they were 30% off), you don't have to feel guilty walking out with four because you were paralyzed with indecision over which color(s) to get (oops, did I do that?). The best part is how lightweight these tanks are, making them look and feel perfectly worn-in. Do the masterminds at J.Crew ever sleep?